January 10, 2012

why we SKIPPED CHURCH {and loved it}


The last two weeks have been pretty busy for Dustin at work.  Even though both were only 4-day weeks, we're pretty sure he worked 50+ hours each week.  He also worked when he got home and received quite a few late night phone calls from employees that needed help.

That didn't leave much time for us as a family to be together. 

On Saturday, I had the weird thought that we shouldn't go to church on Sunday.  Instead, we should just spend the day together.  I thought it was kind of weird to feel so good about skipping church, but I really did.

I thought, if we didn't go to church we would miss so many things... 

We would miss the usual tantrum of getting our daughter out of her PJs and into a dress. 

 We would miss the short, but always frustrating, walk to the church because the little one refuses to hold our hands.  

We would miss not sitting in the chapel during sacrament meeting and finding our usual spot in the foyer. 

We would miss trying to keep our full of energy sweet pea quiet and from running around the building during what always promises to be the longest 70 minutes of my week.  

We would miss the usual fight going to nursery, and (because if there is an opportunity to be difficult, why not be?) the usual fight leaving nursery.  

And, last, but not least, we'd miss the fun walk home because, again, our lovely bundle of joy won't hold our hands and insists on walking every and anywhere but the sidewalk.

After weighing my options and thinking about all the things we'd miss by not going to church, what to do ended up being a pretty painless dilemma.

We totally and utterly and shamelessly skipped church.

And it was probably the best Sabbath day I've had in a long time.

10 Thoughts:

  1. Church can be overrated! I am down with eliminating Sunday School. Who really needs it anyways? I usually come home trying not to be offended!

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  2. Don't feel bad, I missed church for the 3rd straight week! I do, however, have a good excuse for missing... I got my tonsils, adenoids and taken out and nose worked on December 23rd! I have sleep apnea and hopefully this will help out with that issue. I was hoping to be done with this recovery stuff in 2 weeks, but I am currently on week 3! I've got to teach Sunday School on Sunday, wo the goal is to make it back then!!

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  3. Abby - I'm with you. I'm lucky to stay awake during SS.

    Alan - 3 weeks. Pssh! I once missed 6 weeks straight. Granted, I had just had a kid, but still. Hope you feel better so you can teach!

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  4. I have been really bad myself at not going to church but then they nab you for callings so you have to come. I agree with the coment from The Cherry Family I do not enjoy Sunday School and I really wish Sacrament Meeting was first (apparently there are only two wards in our stake that don't due Sacrament Meeting first ours and
    9th Ward go figure. We should be getting a new Bishopric pretty soon so maybe something good will happen like Sacrament Meeting first. I feel guilty when I don't go for just a minute and then I am over it.

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  5. I was specifically asked to comment, so here goes:
    I wasn't going to tell anyone, but I missed the previous 2 weeks in a row. We're all going to HELL, I tell ya! HELL! (But at least we'll all be in good company! :) I do have to say that I got up and got my 3 little kids to church every single Sunday they were growing up. And I took them to church myself THE ENTIRE TIME. I sat with them being little monsters...throwing hymn books across the chapel, pulling fiber off the wallpaper, unscrewing the hymn book holders with pocket knives, etc etc etc. So don't get too used to staying home! You only get a few "get out of church free" passes!
    I'm glad you enjoyed your free time!

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  6. Sounds so stressful! I'd be tempted to skip, too!

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  7. I say, skip away! God isn't in that building. God is wherever you are.

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  8. Sometimes we can enjoy the spirit without the formality. In fact, probably more than not. I could go on and on...but that's tmi for you to know about me. :)

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  9. Flintstone also refuses to hold hands unless he's having trouble balancing.

    Sounds like it was a well worth it break!

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  10. It sounds like you needed the break. Nothing wrong with that, as long as it doesn't become a habit.

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